Video of outdoor Humanist wedding ceremony of Lisa and Glen conducted by Joe Armstrong at Nuremore Hotel, Carrickmacross, Co. Monaghan on a very sunny day 16 July 2016. Said bride Lisa:’We love it and would be proud to have it on your blog.’ Video reproduced by courtesy of MakeMyDayProductions.com
Click this link to a short interview I did about Humanist weddings, naming ceremonies and funerals on the Joe Finnegan Show on Shannonsid Northernsound Radio on 24 August 2016
Sometimes it feels like there’s just too much going on – like children growing up and leaving home. Was I blinking? How did that happen so fast? College calls. CAO. UCAS. Wherever.
Choosing what to do aged 18 or 19 is probably most people’s first adult decision. Mine was to enter a seminary (although I’d later see leaving it, nine years later, as my first adult choice). And today new generations set off on their chosen paths aged 18 or so to learn their trade or profession, to chart their course, to create their future. They decide. They act. And off they go embarking upon the great adventure of life!
Nice pictures can be found on my Pinterest photos and also by clicking here Peggy and Michael’s Humanist wedding conducted by Joe Armstrong at Mount Druid. It’s the third time one of my Humanist weddings has been featured on One Fab Day. They do a great job!
Dear Sarah, my daughter, on the eve of your Leaving Cert,
I know you think that the entire outcome of your life hinges on how well you do in your exams.
I know you think that the grades that you feel you have to get will determine your happiness or unhappiness in life.
I know you think that your performance during your exams will open or close doors for you.
It won’t. (Really, it won’t: there are thousands of doors you don’t even know exist – and you will choose one of them for you!)
You may think that a certain outcome will open the particular door that you feel you most want in life.
It might or it might not open that door. But your happiness does not depend on that door opening.
You may think that the grades you get will determine how clever or otherwise you are.
You may think that others will judge you by the points you get in your Leaving Cert.
They won’t. (And those who do are not wise, so you can discount their judgments anyway.)
You might feel like a sword is hanging over your head.
If you get the grades you want, they might or might not lead to happiness.
You could learn much more in life and be far happier if you get fewer grades than you’d like.
You know lots. Of course there is lots more that you don’t know. So in the celebrations of knowledge which are about to begin try your best to celebrate on the page what you know.
And, by the way, you know far more than you realise.
And you also know far less! (Since the more any of us know, the more we realise how relatively little we know.)
Don’t expect to be able to share everything you know: nobody can do that.
Live the moment. Live this moment.
Enjoy this moment, and, yes, enjoy, really enjoy, these celebrations of what you know. See them as your opportunity to do yourself justice – because you do deserve to do well. Just don’t worry how anyone else estimates what well means for you.
Detach! Don’t worry about the outcome. Just live in the moment. Enjoy every moment!
Love, Your Dad. 7 June 2016
The Central Statistics Office has released fascinating statistics on marriages taking place during 2015.
It shows that marriages conducted by celebrants/solemnisers accredited by the Humanist Association of Ireland accounted for more than five per cent of all marriages. The report states that ‘In recent years the Humanist Association has also risen in popularity with 1,264 (5.7%) of marriages in 2015.’
August is the most popular month for marriage. ‘In 2015, 13.3% (or 2,927) of marriages occurred in August. Over a quarter (26.5%) of all marriages took place in the months of July and August.’
Friday and Saturday are the most popular days of the week to get married with 69.2% of marriages being conducted on those days.
Friday 31st July and Saturday 1st August were the most popular wedding dates in 2015 with 276 (over 1%) marriages taking place on each. Then came Friday 4th September, with 248 (over 1%) marriages. Other highly desirable dates were New Years Eve, Saturday 30th May and Friday 7th of August, each of which saw 247 marriages taking place.